The generation whose leading edge is just coming into the work force, the ones that many of us call the Entrepreneurial Generation, are sick and tired of the simultaneous bragging and whining that we Baby Boomers constantly offer up when talking about our work and careers. They are the children of the tale end of the Baby Boomers — and they are angry and they want to make changes in our culture.
One of my students offered this comment to a post I wrote on Character last summer:
There are many things that help forge our character and values. My generation, from what I’ve seen, is really focused on keeping family first, even before career. Some say that this is because we watched so many baby boomers screw this whole family thing up. My take on it is that because the baby boomers sometimes grew up wanting, they determined in their minds that their families would want for nothing. Unfortunately, my generation has all they want, but grew up with workaholic parents who were absent in their lives. I believe we’re searching to find that balance between family and career.
Penelope Trunk, who writes a blog called Brazen Careerist, offered her take yesterday on a Harvard study on “extreme careerists” (who are most often Baby Boomers):
I cringe every time I read an interview with a “Successful Mom” who works a 70 hour week and can miraculously balance her kids and husband’s 70-hour week as well. All of this womens magazine [stuff] is self-reported, and what mom or dad is going to stand up and say they are destroying the kids by working long hours?…
Here’s what the Harvard Business Review article should have said: The long-standing practice of baby boomers to have dual-career families with no one home for the kids is bad for the kids, even if the parents are enjoying themselves. Fortunately, the post-boomer generations recognize the problem and plan to not repeat it.
And if you think her words sting, make sure to read the comments that follow her post!
Cal Thomas’ quote on the mess we Baby Boomers have left the generations that follow us are worth repeating:
My generation has been obsessed with making money and acquiring things in place of investing necessary time on marriage and children. The message the kids get is that if marriage is mostly about accumulating wealth and acquiring stuff, they can do that without getting married.
Family trees are beginning to resemble kudzu…
Other countries and cultures around the world are not the only people ready to rebel against today’s American culture — so too are the young adults who are inheriting it.
Excellent post. We became a single income family just before we had children. It was a great decision. I believe our quality of life is much better than if we had two incomes and more things:-)
My wife and I made the same choice a long time ago, and we would agree with your assessment!
I liked reading this topic from your baby boomer perspective. So often this topic is generations talking separately instead of with each other. Thank you for making things more interesting.
Jeff, I agree wholeheartedly! As someone in this generation I have talked alot about this with my girlfriend and we have decided not to succumb to the pressures of quality of life defined by the size of one’s paycheck. We are both convinced that there has to be other options, one of which is entrepreneurship! While I am biding my time here in big four accounting, I am also working to develop something that will provide a residual income, but more importantly a standard of living that does not require 70+ hours per week!
I think seeing the control my dad had over his life/schedule while I was growing up (small business owner) drives to me to want to be there for my kids as they grow up. Thankfully he was there when I was growing up and not in meetings!
Cheers,
Travis
I agree, in part, with your student’s take on “character”. However, depending on your family’s size, it is possible for the children to have everything they “want” with a great deal of parental presence. For example, I believe I had everything I “wanted”, parentally and materially, because I was an only child and, in my mind, it was easy to define what my “want” included.
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