My column from the Tennessean this week:
So why do entrepreneurs start businesses, anyway? Certainly, a fundamental reason is to make a living and build a nest egg.
But entrepreneurs can be driven by something much more than that. They can become obsessed by the challenge and thrill of “the deal.” Once they make it past the start-up period, some will try to take their businesses as far as the market will let them. To them, success is measured not by their ability to provide for their family, but by how large they can build their business.
Still others become serial entrepreneurs — starting business after business over the course of their careers. But there is a risk for entrepreneurs who are driven to build their businesses even larger, or who can’t wait to start that next deal. They can become almost addicted to the deal-making process; they can become what I call an “entre-holic.”
While building businesses that provide for our families and that create good jobs for others is a noble act, some entrepreneurs can easily lose balance in their lives.
The pursuit of the deal can begin to crowd out the other things in life. Entrepreneurs need to keep in mind that we all are more than what we do in our work, more than just business owners. We are spouses, parents, friends and citizens.
Life requires balance
Entrepreneurs need to take actions that lead them to be good at all that they are called to do in their lives. That may mean that they temper their ambitions to make sure they have time for all the other things that are important.Finding balance can be quite elusive for those of us who love to pursue opportunity. I have wrestled with “entre-holism” for much of my working life. Like many entrepreneurs, I am addicted to opportunity-seeking.
This never was clearer to me than when we sold our health-care company. After the sale, I was immediately ready to seize that next opportunity. I had the plan. I had the funding.
Luckily, I also have a very wise wife. She said to me: “You are in time out. No deals for six months.” She recognized what I did not — that I had let the pursuit of the deal consume me. It defined who I was and left no room for all of those other things that we are called to be in our lives — a parent, a spouse, a friend.
My “time out” forced me to really spend time discerning what I should do next. And eventually I realized it was not that next deal.
Now, I need to be clear that entre-holism is a disease of relapse. Even as an academic, a professor at a university, I find myself slipping and thinking of pursuing too many opportunities rather than leading a life of moderation. Just this past year I had three book projects going all at once.
Why? Because each project seemed too good to pass up.
But once again my wife was there to rescue me. When New Year’s rolled around, she gave me my resolution for 2009. “You will only read books in 2009.”